It needs to be someone who has disagreed with me in public, but tag whoever you want.
Then how about a poll? I could even do it for you! We could make a thread where people vote and lock their vote to see how many people are for and against the checkbox being, by default, unchecked. The goal of this thread was to show that the people who post often are definitely for the idea of it being unchecked by default.
You might have skipped reading this part of my last post:
Taking a vote and acting based on the outcome is not a good way to run a website. There have been a lot of really poor feature recommendations that have been accompanied by roaring support.
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That example is terrible...you literally took a couple active people's opinions and said "we're all in agreement" - which is the same as this thread and the one I linked to previously in this thread where active posters shared their opinion in favor of this change.
The point is that I don't generally make unilateral decisions without consulting people, despite your accusations.