lol, fag.
With that being said the "negativity" you're seeing is all in good fun. Think 90s-style, Wild West Internet type fun. And if there's actual torches and pitchforks out against someone, it's because that someone was being an idiot of enormous proportions.
Don't let the bluntness ward you off. It's refreshing to be in a writing community that isn't an echo chamber and isn't afraid to give real criticism. That's the only way to really learn and grow as a writer anyway.
Welcome to CYS and have fun :)