Sethaniel's post:
Another study: People ages 25-40 were classified into three groups- frequent gamer, moderate gamer, and non-gamer. The gamers were more confident and had better social skills than non-gamers, with frequent gamers having the best scores overall.
I'm in the 30's age group, with terrible social skills. I spend most of my time each day, for years, in front of a computer, both gaming and working. I'm an ultra-frequent gamer. I should be confident with good social skills according to that study. In fact, none of the people I know who spend a lot of time computering and gaming have good social skills. I know teachers, and they say kids' social and language skills are plummeting with each year. On written tests, youth are doing things like writing in mobile phone text-speak, ie, How R U, instead of real English. And as for social skills, if you spend your time looking at a screen and not at real people, there's absolutely no way you can learn to read body language, and the older you get, the harder it will become. I think they must have been using chat room and forum 'social' skills, and not real world social skills, because the two forms of communication are completely different and removed from each other.