I think what disgusts me the most about this case is the fact that the Turner family has the audacity to openly list the negative ramifications on his son and declare that they are the victims in this tragedy. In his mother's letter, she goes on to say that 'His life is forever impacted and drastically altered by the ramifications of these guilty verdicts,' and then to list all the consequences that will negatively impact on Brock's life.
Perhaps he should have considered that before he sexually assaulted a girl. Perhaps his family should consider who the real victim in this case is. Not your son. Perhaps they should consider that the life of the victim has also radically changed for the worse - but for her, she didn't choose this for herself. He was the one who forced himself upon an almost unconscious girl - he was the one who threw away his own dreams of Stanford and swimming. Or did he think that sexually assaulting a girl would have no ramifications? Certainly, his mother and father seem to think so. They point to alcohol and they even go so far as to accuse her of wanting it when she was clearly not able to give consent. When will it occur to people like this, that a girl does not have to pass out for you to realise that perhaps you should not proceed. The Turners stand back and have the audacity to list how this will negatively impact on their son, when in reality, your son chose to go down this path, and the victim didn't. No other drunk person in the building decided to become a rapist. No other person in the building would have decided that a backrub meant that you could hump and shove pinecones into an unconscious girl in a back alley with her head scraping on the floor.
This sexual assault was due to no other factor than your son having the intentions to sexually assault the victim (and I will say to rape this girl, had the two bikers not discovered them). Everything about this case disgusts me. The judge who declared that this bright, smart, athletic, young boy would not be a danger to society should be sacked and forced to reconsider what his definition of 'danger to society' is. Because if a rapist is not a danger to society, then I hope that he realises that he has given a slap to the face to all women out there, and I hope he does not have a daughter.
Victim mentality has to stop. Yes, going out late at night by yourself in revealing clothes is not smart. Of course it isn't. But by telling your daughter or friend 'Don't go by yourself' or 'You need to dress more appropriately' with the best intentions, is ultimately, if we strip it down, 'I don't want you to get raped tonight. Let someone else get raped.'
Think about it like this: if someone is killed whilst walking down a street by themselves late at night, of course it wasn't smart, but do we turn to that person's family and say 'Well why was he walking down that street by himself? What sort of clothing was he wearing? I'll guarantee, right now, that he was being provocative. I'll bet that he wanted it... Look at the guy who stabbed him! He'll be traumatised for life! He was a very kind and polite young boy, who had so many opportunities ahead of him. Now that this has happened, do you know how that will negatively affect him??' This is a slap in the face to the victim, who not only has to prove that this has been traumatising for her (because, yes, apparently sexual assault can be not traumatising), but who has to sit through sessions after sessions of being accused of liking it, of listening to people say how this will negatively impact on him as if he had been forced to sexually assault her.
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