Hello, I'll give you the best advice I can. There are plenty of people here you can talk to; just be careful what you say on the forums. Due to problems with trolls, everyone suspects new members of being one. It's just that this suspicion manifests itself in different ways depending on the person you are talking to. Some people will immediately attack you; others will give you the benefit of the doubt. Don't worry; after a while, everyone will warm up to you. If you need help from someone, there is an article under "help & info" about which members you should seek out and how they can help you. Again, I don't mean to sound all "doom and gloom"; it's just that I don't want you getting sucked into the paranoia. That is all, and oh, welcome to CYS.