Life in China is pretty much the same as it is all over the world, people in different countries do about 90% of the same things everyone does and have the same thoughts. There are a few notable differences:
- The pollution is awful and stray dogs and cats are common.
- People spit and children frequently urinate in the streets.
- People just drop snack wrappers or drinks bottles when they are finished with them. Often this is cleared up but not always.
- The paving slabs in the street are usually all broken, rubbish dumps in people's gardens are common and there are sometimes big holes in the ground.
- The drivers treat traffic lights and pedestrian crossings like advice rather than requirements when driving. The horn is used with great enthusiasm and road accidents are common.
- The Chinese are generally EXTREMELY polite, shy and interested in Foreigners. People sometimes go up to white people and ask nervously if they could have a photo taken with them. I was once chased down the road by a bank guard who wanted to take a photo with me.
- People use mobile phones ALL THE TIME in restaurants, bars, coffee shops etc as a substitute for conversation.Chinese people take photos of EVERYTHING, particularly food, foreigners, nature, family members, children etc
- Bars are regarded as evil and commonly infested by Bar Girls who provide specific services for financial reward. Everyone smokes indoors in all the buildings but drunkenness is rare as the beer in China is about 90% water.
- Chinese TV, Theatre etc is appalling and the arts in general suffer heavily due to censorship. Foreign films are popular.
- Most of the girls in China are like 15 year old teenage girls well into their 30's and 40's, many LOVE teddy bears, Hello Kitty, Justin Bieber etc. Girls typically have one boyfriend who they will marry and husbands are expected to turn ALL their salary over to their wives who will spend it on house bills, savings etc. Possibly for this reason domestic abuse is common, during the night I will often hear voices shouting and women crying loudly because their husbands have just hit them. I'd guess domestic abuse happens in about 1 in 4 or 1 in 5 relationships in China.
- Chinese people love money, technology etc and asking people what their salaries are is a common introduction. For a long time Chinese people had basically nothing and now the markets are open to Western goods and technologies they are anxious to have as much as possible.
- Incidentally some Chinese girls are stunningly beautiful and most Foreigners in China end up marrying an often much younger Chinese wife. Chinese girls for their part seem to like Westerners who they see as "rich", "cool" and "good partners because they won't beat me".
That's all I can think of right now :)