We've got a long one today, folks! And from one of our own members, no less!
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"The difference between gender and sex can be summed up fairly easily in the form of intrinsic knowledge. Mizal already gave a fairly good example, but I'd like to give one of my own.
You wake up on a Monday morning and head to work. You get to work and realize the pants you put on are the really, really itchy ones that drive you half crazy. These are the pants your mother gave you, these are the pants you were born with and forced to wear. But they're itchy. They're uncomfortable. They're pink and covered in sequins and you hate those things. 'Well,' your mother asks, 'how on earth could you KNOW you hate those things? Maybe you just need to get used to them.' All the people at work laugh at you when you don't wear those pants. They ask you if you're some kind of freak who prefers plaid even though you were born with sequins. You resolve to go out after work and buy jeans. You find a pair that fits you perfectly. You love these jeans. They feel so much better. But when you go to work, everyone starts throwing their pencils at you for wearing jeans. 'No,' they say, 'You were born with pink sparkly pants! You can't change that just because you feel like it!'
In the spirit of the metaphor, there are so many types of pants, and some of them may not fit you as well as others. It's the same with gender."
- Liminal