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Hey, so I know everyone on here is like..a stranger, but I need some advice. I have an amazing girlfriend, and I love her literally so much. The problem is I literally have no idea how to tell her. We've been together for months and just saying I love you doesn't have the same satisfaction anymore, she knows I love her so so much, and I know she loves me too. I did something good for chistmas for her, but it still wasn't enough for me. Any suggestions?

Dude, or dudette, it's totally cool for you to make a post.

To be honest, most of the times, people will ask these kinds of questions once they get to know the community a bit better, but it's ok. Plus, you'll probably want to take advice from people once you're actually friends, but still, it's brave of you to open up, and I'll try my best to help you!

Actions speak louder than words. If you feel that saying I love you doesn't have the same ring to it as it used to, maybe you guys are just going through the motions.

Don't try and do grand gestures, but try to show your love for your girlfriend in little ways.

You got some time? Maybe take her out somewhere, to a nice restaurant or on a walk. Don't overthink it, I feel like if you try to do something big, chances are you'll mess up or it'll just feel artificial.

What did you get your girlfriend for Christmas? And was it actually a good present, or do you just think she liked it but she wasn't actually that enthusiastic?

But more than talking to random internet strangers in a community you literally just joined,relationship compatibility and chemistry issues are best solved through open and honest dialogue. We're not your therapists and honestly, just talk it out. Tell your girlfriend all the stuff you told us, and you guys can work together to find a way to bring the chemistry alive.

Try to be sincere and honest. Don't give up hope and don't say stupid shit when you get angry, and you should be fine.

>literally just joined and then went around making whiny complaints about

Yeah, this was a little weird, given that his(or her, could be a lesbian) most recent post was complaining about the community, and then now they are asking for advice from the same place they deemed "toxic". But I guess it's ok, since maybe they do want to be a part of the community, it's just a rocky start in joining the forums.

Actually, you know what? I'm about to go on vacation, going to start early and treat myself today by capping a pussy middle schooler with an alt.

I bet there's a drawing for this

So much mileage out of cropping the full pic for multiple common scenarios.

If you want to go the extra mile, do what Alex(Alexp, not the OP of this thread) did:

https://chooseyourstory.com/story/the-proposal

I feel like a few months is a bit fast. But I suppose it depends on the situation. If you say the L word, you probably ought to be at that stage where you're thinking about rings. But if you're a kid (which I presume you are based on your previous posts), most likely this will end in heartbreak so maybe don't take it so seriously.


EDIT: LOL nvm, RIP Middle Schooler account.

They've been using this app for three years!

They have even been writing stuff, that's something

Well, no, creating a couple of storygames and putting a page of sloppy text into each one as kind of a masking effect proving "seriousness' on a new account before proceeding with plans to draw attention to it in dumbshit ways isn't actually all that unique a tactic.

Sometimes they don't even bother with the page of text.

Well, you've been banned but just in case you see this I recommend making a photo album full of pics of you two together (or a powerpoint with a musical background). You could also plan together and offer to pay for a weekend away (or a day out if on a budget) for the two of you. And don't worry too much, I'm sure she gets it :)